LADY GAGA..The woman behind the Costumes

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Lady Gaga: Behind the OUTRAGEOUS OUTLANDISH Exterior!

Lady Gaga is well known for her outlandish outfits and her outrageous behavior. But behind the make up mask and re birthing egg sits a shy sweet young lady who like anyone else just wants to be heard. People tend to forget that in the music industry there are two things that sell. The first is sex and the second is the shock factor. Good for Gaga, shes the rare breed that can give us both. During her performances she oozes sex appeal provocatively dancing in skimpy "barely there" costumes while her "come hither" stares in the camera draw in the fans she so brilliantly refers to as "her little monsters". She shows little concern with those who do not understand her and continues to astonish us with her outrageous fashion and countless changes to her look. With Gaga it seems the motto is, the more strange or different it seems, then the better it will be for viewers. She seemed to become famous practically overnight and the crazy sex appeal card seems to be working just fine for her.
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Always a "WOW" factor
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Lady Gaga and the Famous "Meat Dress"

Behind the sex, the craziness, the make-up and of course the unforgettable egg, though, lies a shy little voice who seems to tell tales of a hurt heart and a wounded soal. Her songs tell stories about believing in yourself and loving yourself just the way you are. Her messages aren't loud and clear about becoming different or wild but instead of expressing yourself anyway you choose and excepting others for who they are as well. Her messages to the world are simple and in fact pretty noble, humbling and sweet. She encourages anyone who may feel out of place or different to embrace those differences and to celebrate exactly who they are and how they feel. She sends a message of tolerance and a message of love. She says "God makes no mistakes" and "you are beautiful just the way you are".
If all it took was a little lustful sex appeal and some super outrageous, outlandish outfits to send these messages of love to the world then clearly someone should have thought of this concept a long long time ago. Lady gaga should be applauded and praised for what she does. Really it's a simple concept from long ago, Don't judge a book by its cover. Gaga sends that message loudly and clearly. Snaps for Gaga, she has a great deal more class then some give her credit for. Let just hope she keeps on "doing her thing " and we will just keep on loving her for it.

ADVICE FOR AMY

Wednesday, May 25, 2011


ADVICE FOR AMY

AMY'S QUESTION:



I am in my 3rd years of college. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We have a great time together and we get along really well. Lately though, he has been getting really mad at me when I want to hang out with my friends. He says I spend to much time with them and he feel excluded. We go out at least 2 times a week and we see each other everyday because we go to the same school. I like him a lot and really don't want to lose him. What should I do?



RESPONSE TO AMY:



College is one of the most exciting times of your life. After college the "real world" takes charge and the fun times are put on a back burner for a while. As a junior I imagine you are buried in books and up to your ears in work. Blowing off some steam and letting loose with your gal pals should be a welcoming release from the perpetual pressures of turn papers and rigorous research. The close mates you make in college tend to stick around even after you graduate and soon become life-long chums. If your boyfriend is irritated by them after only 6 months you can count on his irritation growing even more as time moves on. Having a great guy who you get along well with certainly ads a little skip to your giddy-up and boosts the self confidence. But, if he's always on your case about the fun times you want to share with your friends he may not be the "great guy" you think he is.





You should bring the matter to his attention and let him know his issues with your "time management" are in fact just that ..his issues. You spend your days working hard trying to earn your education. You have given him at the very least 2 nights during the week and make it a point to see him daily. At this point there really isn't any more you can offer up. He may just surprise you, apologize for his immature insecurities and beg you to forget he said anything at all. However, if he continues to criticize you and this arrangement isn't working for him then perhaps you two crazy kids just aren't the perfectly paired couple you thought you were. Trust me sweety this guy isn't the chosen messiah of men. There are plenty of "tools" in the shed and the sharpest ones don't sweat the nuts and bolts. Good Luck Amy.

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ADVICE FOR JENN

Jenn is a great friend of mine who has a husband who is a control freak. Jenn is the epitome of lovely , intelligent, and sweet as chocolate pie. She is the kind of person who goes out of her way to help a friend and goes even further to please her family.
While being a mother and wife some may thing she sits at home and eats bon bons all day living off her husbands money. This couldn't be further from the truth. She spends countless hours cleaning and organizing the house so when her husband comes home there's not a crumb on the floor nor a speck of dust on the furniture. She browses cookbooks and Internet cooking sites daily to find practically perfect dishes to prepare for dinner and regularly prepares a decadent dessert with her extra extraordinary meals to delight her husbands unique and well fed taste buds. Ladies, I do not lie when I say this woman puts Donna Reed to shame and makes Mrs Brady look like the Octo mom.
That being said, the unfortunate part is that her husband seems unfazed and surprisingly unimpressed with her continuous efforts to please him. He rarely compliments her creative cooking attempts and often boasts fun at them leaving her feeling embarrassed and utterly unappreciated. Yet even though she never seems to get the raving reaction she's so yearning  for she continues cooking and cleaning hoping next time he will give her the love affection and proper praise she so clearly deserves.

My humble advice to you my dearest friend is to please tell this man exactly how you feel. I would never give the advice to anyone to walk out of a marriage based solely on the fact that one partner is under appreciated. Make no mistake there is no abuse going on here and Jenn's husband does provide plentifully for himself and his beautiful family. However is it really that much to ask for a little love, a simple smile or two and a smidgen of over due appreciation for a woman who obviously adores you? The answer; I think not!
Jenn you need to become slightly more assertive and stand up to your man loudly and proudly. Its time for the little voice inside you to come out and play and say "hey husband : look at me, look at me!"
You are a remarkable woman with so many beautiful gifts to offer. You go out of your way to please those you love especially the man of you dreams. There is no reason in the world he shouldn't go out of his way to return the favor. I truly believe when he finds out how your heart feels inside that he will man up, step up to the plate and become the home-run husband you have always known he could be. Good luck my beautiful friend.... My heart is with you always.